Annoyed but why?

My mom is signed up to some of the Yahoo! groups. I often read over her shoulder wondering whats up in the adoption world. Someone started a topic about some things that annoy them that people do like maybe a racial comment or anything. One of things that really stuck out to me was a woman that said she didn't like it when a someone touched her daughter's hair and that offended her? I was very confuzzed by that one. I don't want that lady to be offended about what I wrote I am just saying I didn't understand it. After my mom read that she felt bad cuz she had recently touched an adopted kid's hair and wondered what the adoptive mother thought about it. I am gonna start typing more about my family's adoption process you can read from a kid's point of view here or a parent's point of view at larsonquest.blogspot.com <<<<< these are both the same family just from different views! I hope you like both of ours!!